How can I choose to operate from a place of spirit, rather than a place of ego?

Every moment you have a choice. You can choose to live from a limited, narrow view, where nothing is within your control, and you are at the mercy of externals. Or you can choose to live from a place where everything is an opportunity for growth and how you experience it is up to you.

The spirit self is the higher self, that never sees anything as a problem. There are no problems, just differing methods of communication. Clear and unclear.

To resolve an imagined problem, with someone who may not have this awareness, the most soulful way of doing so would be to place yourself in their shoes, and rather than push against what they are expressing, really see clearly what it is that they are expressing, at the heart of the issue.

Most often you will find that the dialogue is meaningless, and the core issue is that they are feeling a feeling that is not being addressed, so they are seeking to have that feeling validated.

When you listen from a place of ‘what is true for this person’,’ it becomes easy to speak the language of anyone you are with, and leave them feeling honored and valid.

The ego way of communicating, which is how the world has been operating for a long time is used-to individuals pushing opinions and view points onto each other, trying to make the other person see your way, or agreeing but silently disagreeing, causing a space of authenticity. Anything left in the ‘unsaid’ is felt by the soul. When what is said, resonates with the truth, breakthroughs in understanding and communication naturally occur.

The way to operate from your soul is to be authentic in your communications, authentic in your listening, and able to listen to the authenticity of what is so, for others and accept it as their truth. The truth of ‘what is’ for others is felt as the same truth you operate from. You don’t have to agree with everyone, but to see ‘what is’ helps us have understanding, instead of friction. Compassion, instead of judgement.

You will know how to help people, and have the ability to heal situations when you can see things through the eyes of truth.

The truth does not judge anything as good or bad. It simply sees what is, and is the space where things transform.”